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He says, when you have a trial to deal with, this is what you should do. You should say: “Allah, I know this trial is from You. And I know it is to teach me something. And it is to try me. And I will be patient on it. And I will be patient on it as long as You want me to be patient.” Shahidullah Faridi says, “Often, if this attitude is adopted, the challenge simply goes away.
I'm also trying out the labels thingie...but I'm not a complete convert yet. Any thoughts on labels? Do I have to go back and label everything?